Man I am getting real sick of all this bullshit “Womp womp no one here likes me” crap.
fucking seriously. If you whine about people not liking you - people aren’t going to like you. If you cause drama, people aren’t going to like you. In an online bjd group I’m on we’ve had a rash of a few people pulling the “Well maybe I should leave because obviously no one wants me here and people dislike me.” Except people have never spoken badly about them or said anything of the sort! Not to mention their posts get a couple likes a comments just like anyone else’s - but they tend to be quieter people it seems so maybe people just don’t see them as much???
I don’t know but I want this crap to stop because having to reassure someone that we don’t want them to leave is becoming really tired really quickly. If you feel that way then you probably should stop crying for attention and irritating the shit outta everyone and just go rather than bring your emotional drama in with you.
I saw that when it happened and I was sitting at my screen with a confused look, trying to figure out where it even came from. I can understand being frustrated if there’s no meetups close to you, sure, that can be a bummer. But to think that people dislike you because….what, exactly? I wasn’t able to even think of an instance where something like that might’ve come up.